Diversity is everywhere and is absolutely beautiful once we learn to embrace it rather than fear it! One of the greatest things about diversity, in my opinion, is expanding our personal ‘world’ with new things. I’ve written about the racial bias I have encountered, being in an interracial marriage and hope you’ll take the time to read it. I wrote it for the sole purpose of helping others understand.
As adults, we often find it difficult to see the perspectives of other people. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve heard ‘well they just need to get over it’ or ‘it isn’t as bad as they say it is.’ That’s just…. sad. It’s also untrue. While there are those people of all races that are incredibly dramatic, not everyone is prone to stretch the truth or make things up.
Teaching Diversity in a Healthy Way
My cousin-in-love called me once to ask for advice on how to teach her beautiful babies about different cultures and diversity. According to her (so none of ya’ll can get upset about this), she grew up the only white girl on an all black basketball team and didn’t realize that black people were ‘supposed to be different’ until she went to college. I absolutely love that and, to be honest, she is such a beautiful person. She is incredibly sweet, open minded and I honestly believe she loves everyone. An amazing example of what a Christian should be.
My immediate answer to that question was exposure. I encouraged her to take those beautiful babies (well, they aren’t babies anymore but still) to cultural festivals or even to a black church (this conversation took place shortly after George Floyd was murdered in the streets of Minneapolis). Having been to black churches, I can honestly say that any well meaning visitor will be met with love as that is part of black culture: to embrace differences and have a strong sense of community.
Diversity isn’t just about race, it’s also about other differences. Special needs, health challenges or even just ‘looking different’ introduces diversity. Don’t believe me? Think back to when you went to school, were there kids that were picked on because of their weight, intelligence, clothing, etc? I rest my case… Honestly, if you answered no to that question I would be tempted to believe you were home schooled and an only child.
Children are unknowingly cruel to each other.
Admittedly, it’s not always unknowingly. Children often have no way of dealing with things as they simply don’t know how so whenever something is going wrong for them, they lash out. Sadly, I did that when I was a child. My home life was a nightmare for a while and I didn’t know how to deal with it, I needed to feel in control and strong so I lashed out. Later, I became a champion for all of the kids that were being picked on because I knew just how they felt. Wouldn’t it have been great if I’d known how to cope and embrace differences? Wouldn’t it be great if we all did?
It’s not as difficult to teach as one might think. It’s honestly more difficult to teach ourselves than our children. They are little sponges, we are often set in our ways and literally have to re-train our brains and thought processes. They have the upper hand on that one as theirs are still forming!
Ways to Embrace Diversity
- Find the Positives in people and teach your children to do the same.
- Teach Empathy. Help your children understand that sometimes people are mean because they are hurting, that doesn’t make it okay but it does mean we shouldn’t be mean back.
- Understanding. While that last one sort of addresses understanding, I feel it is worth having it’s own place in the list. A great example, from my own past, are the ‘stinky kids.’ I feel like every school has at least one, but more often than not that person is ‘stinky’ because they may not have running water or some other situation out of their control. Children don’t automatically think of such things, they simply react which leads me to number four…
- Teach them to Think before they speak. Many of us pop off something and immediately regret it, imagine if we’d be taught to think first when we were little! By now, it would be a natural habit!
- Exposure. If you actually read the stuff above, you know exactly what I’m talking about. If not, expose them to new cultures and experiences. If you don’t feel comfortable or have access to such things, do them at home. Teach them about people who are ‘different’ from them in a positive way, after all we are all humans and, if you are a Christian, then you know we are all descendants of two human beings anyway.
Milo The Albino Dino is my inspiration for this post. Milo is a dinosaur that is different from all of the other dinosaurs at school. He feels lonely because he is different and has challenges that the other dinosaurs don’t have, like not being able to be in the sun much. Since he is different, the other dinosaurs don’t ask him to play and often pick on him because their perceptions of him are based solely on appearances and per-conceived notions.
Milo, at the encouragement of him mom, decides to find another albino dinosaur like him so that neither of them will be lonely. As he puts up posters, the other dinosaurs want to help him find a friend as well. Of course, in the end they see al of the wonderful things about Milo and become friends. Even though Milo doesn’t find an albino dinosaur, he finds friends and they all learn to embrace their differences.
Isn’t that a wonderful story? Obviously I’m not going to tell you all of the details, but it is beautiful. It’s also a fantastic little book to help teach children to embrace diversity and see the greatness in differences. I’ve talked about my oldest friendship and can say that we have plenty of differences, I’m thankful that we never let them get in our way. After all, she is still my best friend in the world.
This is the second children’s book by author Dolev Zaharony we have reviewed. Check out our other review: Far Beyond the Sun- A Fun, Educational Adventure for Children. It’s a fantastic book as well!
Thank you for stopping by, I hope that you took the time to read the post above as it really is a relevant topic, even if you don’t have little children of your own. One lucky winner will win this fantastic book, it teaches diversity and a little about dinosaurs and even South Africa!
I would like to say thank you to Mama the Fox for putting this hop together! They are really fantastic and very enjoyable!